Family Therapy
Every family goes through periods of tension, miscommunication, emotional distance, or conflict. Sometimes it’s one member struggling, and other times it’s a pattern repeating through generations. Families often love each other deeply but don’t know how to communicate in a way that feels safe, respectful, or connective — especially when stress, trauma, or old emotional wounds are involved. Family therapy creates a space where everyone can better understand each other, break reactive cycles, and build a healthier pattern of relating.
Whether your family is navigating communication breakdowns, constant arguments, emotional distance, parenting challenges, blended family transitions, adult family conflict, boundary issues, teen-parent struggles, or the lingering effects of emotionally immature or unavailable caregivers, this work helps you repair disconnection, strengthen relationships, and move forward together with more understanding and emotional safety.
Our Approach To Family Therapy

Attachment-Based Family Therapy
We explore the emotional needs, fears, and beliefs each person brings into interactions — and teach families to respond rather than react.​
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IFS (Internal Family Systems) for Families
Every person has protective parts, sensitive parts, and younger wounded parts.
We help each family member understand their internal world so they can:
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De-escalate conflict
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Communicate without defensiveness
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Understand triggers
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Hold space for each other
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EFT (Emotionally Focused)
We map the emotional dance happening in the family — who pursues, who withdraws, who shuts down, who tries to fix — and shift it into a safer, healthier pattern.
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Practical Communication Tools
We teach strategies for:
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Listening without reacting
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Expressing needs safely
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Repairing after conflict
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Setting boundaries
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Creating emotional safety
This approach is compassionate, non-blaming, and deeply healing.
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What Families Gain Through Therapy
Most families experience:
✓ Better communication and fewer misunderstandings
✓ Feeling heard, respected, and valued
✓ A calmer, more supportive home environment
✓ Tools to handle conflict without escalation
✓ Healing of old hurts and emotional wounds
✓ Improved connection and closeness
✓ Understanding each other’s triggers and perspectives
✓ Healthier boundaries
✓ More trust and emotional safety
✓ A stronger sense of teamwork
This is the foundation for a healthier, more peaceful family life.
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Signs Your Family May Benefit From Therapy
You might relate to:
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Frequent tension or arguments
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A teen who feels misunderstood or shut down
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Parents and children feeling disconnected
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One family member feeling excluded or blamed
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Emotional reactions that escalate quickly
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Different parenting styles causing conflict
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Family patterns repeating across generations
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Feeling like you’re walking on eggshells
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Avoiding certain topics to keep the peace
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Wanting to reconnect after a difficult season
You don’t have to navigate this alone. Healing the family system is possible.
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What a Session Looks Like
1. Set shared intentions
We begin by understanding what each person hopes for.
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2. Explore the family system
Identify patterns, roles, and emotional needs.
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3. Practice communication
Support each member in speaking honestly and listening with openness.
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4. Work with protective and reactive parts
Understand what’s underneath anger, withdrawal, or shutdown.
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5. Build new patterns
Practical skills for daily communication and conflict repair.
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6. Integration
You leave feeling more connected, understood, and grounded.
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FAQ
Do all family members need to attend together?
We generally meet together, with occasional individual check-ins if helpful.
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Is family therapy about blaming someone?
No — it’s about recognizing patterns, not pointing fingers.
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Can therapy help with adult children or estrangement?
Yes. Repair and reconnection work is one of our specialties.
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What if some members don’t want to attend?
We can start with whoever is willing — change in one part of the system changes the whole.
